Jamie always gives me wonderful gifts....but when I opened
this one I broke down crying harder than I have in months because it was so
incredibly special and exactly what I needed in that moment. It was a framed
sheet of paper listing 27 reasons why I am her best friend. I sat clutching the
frame for several minutes while I got all of the crying out of my system. Every
single reason she listed hit home so hard, and many of them were the same
reasons she is my best friend.
Jamie lives in North
Carolina, but in that moment, I felt more loved and
cared for by someone over 2,000 miles away than by anyone living here. That is
the true power of a best friend.
It was only a piece of paper with a few humble sentences
printed on it, but it meant the world to me. I admire her for even trying to
list out the reasons we are friends. I could fill hundreds of pages with all of
my reasons and still not find an end.
I often wonder if the things I do for people really
matter...really mean anything to them after the moment I do them. And for some
people, they probably don’t. But Jamie is a testament to the fact that
sometimes they do matter. You don’t maintain any kind of relationship with
someone for 22 years unless you got a few things right. And the things is,
Jamie is one of the people who has inspired me to keep giving, keep trying,
keep loving even when things seem useless and impossible and hopeless. I try to
be a better person every day because of her.
Aesop’s saying that “No act of kindness, no matter how
small, is ever wasted,” really is true. It will either help someone else.....or
it will help you through the act of giving it. Trying to add up all of Jamie’s
acts of kindness in my life would be like trying to count all the stars in the
heavens. There are simply too many. But every one of them has mattered to me.
Jamie is my best friend and my sister. She is my partner in
crime and is present in every single memory I have growing up. She has
supported me at every twist and turn in life in every way a person can be
supported. She has loved me unconditionally for 22 years and is the one person
who would be right at my side even if I stood with hundreds against me. She is
the one blessing God granted me that keeps making its presence known with each
passing day.
“People are like stained glass windows. They sparkle and shine
when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is
revealed only if there is light from within.” (Elisabeth Kubler-Ross).
Jamie....you are the stained glass window of my life! Words
can’t begin to tell you how much I love you or how thankful I am for you.